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What are the signs of flirting in women and girls that men can easily notice?
My sexual mentor a few years ago, suggested to me that I become more expert on women’s body language and flirting signs.
He told me that if I tune into the signs of flirting in women, I will never get the dreaded rejection vibe. He also told me that women are always sending subtle clues to men they are interested in, but many men totally miss these clues.
Over the coming years I really have made a study of the many signs of flirting that most women make again and again.
Usually, society and their mum teach women not to make the first move in the dating game. After all, she does not want to be called a bit slutty. So she sends out sutler messages that she is interested in you and gets rather annoyed when men miss these flirty messages.
One good thing to keep in mind that the more flirting clues she sends you the more reliable the message is. One flirting message can be misleading as usually body language clues come in groups.
The following is a list of some signs of flirting in woman that tend to come in groups
* One common flirting sign is when she touches her hair, playing with it. It is best if her palm faces out to you.
* How she stands or sits with her crotch facing towards you.
* Is she leaning to you when you are talking to her or coming closer than normal?
* Does she flash her palm to you?
* Does she use a soft more feminine, sexy voice?
* Does she glance at you across the room?
* Does she make strong eye contact with bedroom eyes?
* Is she fixing her clothing, posture when she notices you?
* Does she show her neck or shoulders to you?
* Does she show her breasts in some way. E.g. putting her arm under them to make the cleavage more visible?
* Does she lick her lips when talking to you?
* Does she tilt her head as she talks?
* A big one, smiling at you.
* Does she copy your body language. E.g. You are both leaning in.
One easy way to see the above flirty body language is to check out some TV ads. You will see the woman actors using the above signs of flirting body language signals again and again!
One can also use some powerful words to stimulate a woman’s sexual interest when first meeting, and I cover this in my free newsletter dating and dirty talking tips.
Women leave signs of flirting clues when they are interested in a man. And the more clues they leave for you, the better is the chance that they *really* like you.
Maurice Tate is a qualified sexologist trained at the Advanced Institute of Sexology. To improve your lovemaking go to Free Oral Sex Tips
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Tags: Do you think you know how to flirt? First, see if you’re already following these 6 tips, and then we’ll take it from there.
1. Be playful. Have you ever had a 5 year old girl say to you “OK, now, I’m the princess, and you’re the prince. You’re going to ride up on your horse, and . . .” It’s simple. Girls like to role-play. And not just 5 year old girls. Adult women love it, too. Think of that woman in front of you as a little girl just waiting for a playful man to engage her in some fantasy banter, and you’ll double your flirting skill almost instantly. Keep the fantasy PG rated at first and she’ll join in more often than you think.
2. Have some material ready. You don’t want to come across as canned, but it doesn’t hurt to have a funny story ready for any lull that might come along in the conversation.
3. Be arrogant. Now this one needs some explanation. I didn’t say “be a jerk”. This is a “playful” arrogance. If you bump your head, smile and say “it’s a good thing I’m the man of steel.” Keep a smile close at hand, and you can get away with a truckload of arrogance. And most women will love it.
4. Lean back. Don’t lean in very often when you talk to a woman. It makes you look way too interested in what she’s saying. You need to be the one with exciting stories and opinions. If you make yourself more interesting, you can make her come to you.
5. Set an authority frame. Don’t let her take on the role of your teacher. Girls will do this if you let them. Try to have things you can teach them. Teach them anything — a tongue twister, the answer to a riddle, how to remember a list of numbers, whatever. Flirting will go much better if you establish yourself as the authority in the situation. And I’m not talking about taking a chauvanistic tone here. I’m just saying, be the one with the most to offer in the interaction.
6. Try a deeper voice. Try not to sound like a cartoon, but try going deeper. Try to have some resonance in your chest when you talk. Think of your voice vibrating through her.
Flirting is very important. It’s one of the most fun things in all of life if you know how to flirt well. Keep working on it, and take every chance you have to learn how to do it well.
About the Author:
T.P. (PhD) is the author of “Flirting Decosntructed”. Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting quiz at http://www.alphamaleplanner.com/flirt_quiz.php