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The Art of Flirting and Online Dating

Online flirting is similar to the way a skilled brick layer works with brick and mortar, brick by brick to make a lasting project strong, by using his knowledge of the tools and resources he has to complete the task. When it comes to online dating and flirting, you also need the right understanding on how to build your relationship. One thing needed in the art of flirting, is showing you have strong confidence, without being pushy, prideful or OTT. When a guy goes too far, she is likely to think he has no style or is on the ’slimy’ side. But if you don’t take it far enough, she may think you are on the ’wimpy’ side. Do you want to learn how to avoid being labeled slimy or wimpy and still flirt successfully online, even without any face to face contact? Given that you already have a computer, internet connection and a dating host site you can still make it work buy using some of these tips for flirting online successfully.

1. First is to have some fun! Be light-hearted, funny and entertaining. Make her eager to talk to you again. Remember part of the art of flirting is being playful.

2. Show confidence. Having a positive outlook on life and the future will always make your flirting more successful. You need to transmit the “feel good” factor.

Being optimistic in this way goes hand and hand with attracting girls, like bee’s and honey go together.

3. Be sincere when you compliment her and do it as often as you can, naturally, without coming across fake or forced.

Nothing opens a door like making her feel good about herself. This will make her want to spend even more time chatting with you, and if she ever returns the compliment make sure you say, ’thank you’. Do not be self depreciating.

4. You need to be a good listener and always listen, listen, listen. Pay attention to what she says and ask appropriate questions. Work at trying to get her to open up and talk about her self without being too pushy on subjects that are very personal, like her address, real name, etc. Give out a good vibe by being interested in what she has to say and she will pick up on it. Being a good listener will work wonders!

5. Don’t be rude. The art of successful flirting is NOT being sexually explicit in any way nor does it take offense if you get no response back,. You need to take the hint if she is not interested, and don’t hound her to respond, but instead just move on to the next prospect. If you find you are getting a lot of rejections then don’t lose your confidence you just need to reconsider your approach.

6. Send an email after you chat. Doing this is like sending a ’thank you’ card for a gift received and is very important in the art of flirting online.

Remember, do not move to fast, just take it easy. Flirting is the first step to a successful relationship.

To help sum it up, Ether Barrymore has two encouraging quotes that can help with successful online dating; “The best time to make friends is before you need them”; and “Laughter is the shortest distance between two friends.”.